MASSAGE TANTRA AND ARE BDSM
COMPATIBLE ?
The scope and limits before the session is agreed … the tools are incorporated gradually , as you progress in learning. The pain , if any , is not an end , it is a means , such as sex and eroticism.

It may seem incompatible , but Tantra and BDSM in a broad sense of knowledge are perfectly hermanables , they are two sides of the same coin , such as pleasure and chastity , pain and touch, love and hate , sex and lighting.